A MISSING RIB :- CAREER

       You get forever joy when you finally find your missing rib in your love life. You as well get your forever joy when you finally find your meant to be "CAREER" in your life.

       Take a look at this definition of CAREER  which I found in a dictionary, It means ;

One's calling in life; a person's occupation; one's profession. 

    "One's calling in life" took my attention first. It's true, that there are many careers everyone can choose and feel that it suits them. It's also true that everyone has that one career that is meant for them. You'll know from their childhood, from their behavior or character. Most times each individuals never know especially if a career was chosen for them. But regardless of the career many choosed and have, some find DISSATISFACTION due to many factors. 

    But there is a SOLUTION, and the solution is to EXPLORE.  But first off you need to have this MINDSET that WHITE-COLLAR JOB'S are and is not always the key to unlocking your inner potentials.

     This is said for a REASON, in that there are different careers in many field and areas, consisting of ODD JOBS and WHITE-COLLAR JOBS. But REMEMBER that we have different types of jobs and they are; Knowledge-based, skill-based,  entrepreneur-based and freelance.

     You may fall under any of these categories, be in it and at it with PRIDE and not SHAME.

    What's more important is that you find joy in what you do and love doing. So in order to find your career please explore, because it's never late to explore and it's never late to learn no matter the condition, age or gender.

    When you try different jobs, trades or skills you'll definitely find the ONE your BODY, MIND and SOUL RESONATES WITH

    ( it could be more than one 🙂)

ARE YOU AN ENTREPRENEUR?

Why the question?

I know you're wondering!!!!

        Well it's because I'll love to know how you, an entrepreneur attract and keep your CUSTOMERS. In a business, customers are our top "priority" and it's because they make up both small and large scale businesses. 

       "CUSTOMERS" can be compared to "STUDENTS". Students do not own a school, but their impact determines a school's functionality. They are the pillar of the educational system and as such are a priority.

       "A BUSINESS" can be compared to a ladies make-up kit or small make-up purse. Truely, it can be small or big, with complete or incomplete make-up tools,it can contain cheap or expensive tools and products, but regardless it is still known as a make-up kit.

So it doesn't matter what type of business you do, but how you attract and keep your CUSTOMERS matter. Let me tell you how I do mine.....

   First off, I enjoy being in contact with my customers, so when customers approach me I :-take note " HEART-WARMINGLY SMILE" . This foremost, gives an opportunity for an "APPROACH" . It's your first attraction , it is a seed to planting a comfortable atmosphere. Infact it is also the invisible water that waters the growth of a conversation till it yields a fruitful harvest or note:- A HAPPY RETURNEE. 

Despite your welcoming atmosphere, Its OK if the customer didn't make a purchase perhaps due to price bargain, but if such customer comes to buy from you some other time then it means such customer was impacted by your welcoming attitude despite this inclusive factors- small stall, low packaging quality and low quality products. ARE YOU SURPRISED?

       I also make HONESTY, Not an inclusive attribute but overall a mandatory attribute in business. You'll see how honesty queue's up customers in a business. For example.. if a kg of any type of sea food is 4kg , don't say it's 5kg just so customers can buy. If they find out it's 4kg compared to the price they purchased it , you'll lose this dear customers. 

  It's more like transparency. This way you'll keep your customers.

    It's not surprising that this simple steps, are nails to keeping a business firm. Yes, there are more to help maintain a built business, and I want to hear the opinions of our able entrepreneurs on professional steps to attracting and keeping CUSTOMERS in our business world.

    In conclusion I encourage our upcoming, new and experienced entrepreneurs to keep as a reminder this impacting little FORMULA in attracting and keeping customers:-

                         AC = HWS

                         KC = H

 total Infinite customers

                       HWS + H = IC

A formula to never forget...

                           

THE BEST ESCORT!!!

 THE BEST ESCORT

       Safety Consciousness

It's not surprising, safety is very important and is part of our life.

     But what is safety Consciousness?

Safety Consciousness may be defined as awareness of hazards and alertness to danger.  Being safety Conscious saves and protects lives of billions of people. 

 Most importantly in order to have safety Consciousness, you must value safety no matter where you are or what time of the day it is. 

Our modern day environment is prone to alot of hazards, it could be chemically, physically and Biologically. This types of hazards has it's potential to cause harm at any time and as such we should be safety conscious at all times , it could be in our homes, at work, while walking, while cooking, while on the road , while cleaning, while travelling etc.... 

Accidents will and can occur at anytime and so we need to be alert to our environments and surroundings ..

   I get to do this all the time..... And you should too......

    Checking and rechecking my gas switch a hundredth times to know if it's properly turn off or not 

Ditching the lazy attitude and drying off moist floor areas

Wearing rubber slippers indoors at all times especially in the kitchen .. this will mostly avoid shocks and slips

Running carefully when Crossing the road .... Yea it is necessary and it should be for you too ( Ditch this funny statement .... ( I will not run, it's my father's road)

Turning off most switches and electrical appliances in your home can save you a lot of money , preventing accidents such as sparks and wire burns 

Paying attention to details in your work environment... Either at the office, or work site or even working at home

Educating your young ones to be safety conscious ... A child won't forget simple safety habits you tell them and it's consequences of neglecting it...

I avoid using candles at home .... You know the reasons

Avoid shortcuts while in a working setting

Avoid liquid foods while using your phones, laptops and computers...

Etc...

Safety is essential... Infact it's the second clothe I wear and you should wear it too...

ACCEPT REALITY...

ACCEPTING REALITY

You can't undo things.

You can't rewind things.

Some person's won't be with you forever.

There will always be problems in life.

Sometimes it's you alone in this world.

Most times only you can stop what's hurting you.

Most times it is you that needs to pull yourself out of your own problems, no one will help you do it.

Risk is part of life.

You will always encounter problems.

You got to play your role sometimes in people's lives.

You'll definitely need someone's help.

Is it you and what you believe in that lives life.

You can't act strong forever, so cry sometimes, it's reliving.

Sometimes you got to let loose.

What's not yours is not yours.

There's a point in time that you will start afresh.

Life goes on with or without you.

You will manage life.

A time to be humble is part of life. Experience is part of life.

You'll pick up pieces and fix things.

Your bank account might not be full everyday.

Eating whatever is available during tough times.

A time to not select things in life.

This is REALITY...

ONE TIME MOMENTS...

ONE TIME MOMENT'S...

  

What are these and those one time moment's? You may ask.

   One time moment's could be special, happy, unhappy, painful, sad and even

" MEMORABLE " .

Everyone has and will have their one time moment's, cause it surely comes. It could probably be when you least expect and even when you expect it. 

  These moment's can be in a " BIG " form and even in the " LITTLEST " form which makes an impact in our lives. We are all so busy with our day to day activities without knowing that most times it is up to us to "CREATE" our moment's . 

   These moment's are a necessity and should be part of our lives. 

I will gladly emphasize the great benefits of creating and making your moment's. There is a long list but this are a few  benefits:

It improves our "MENTAL" and "PHYSICAL HEALTH" and you know how important your mental health is , so do not joke with it.

We all "CRAVE" for even a little peace of mind. My fellow humans, what in the world is stressing you out, that you can't give it as little as 20min break to create a little "RELIVING" moment to calm your nerves.

True, that you might not get away from the stress after the reliving moment , but tell me the "DIFFERENCE" you get when you have that short moment before going back to deal with that stress. 

That 20min moment could have been all you needed to rethink calmly and allow your brain relax , and motivate yourself. You know the rest.....

"SELF LOVE" - You don't have to break the bank to do something good for yourself.  Having your "ME TIME"  is a wonderful moment in individuals lives to never forget and makes you love yourself more.

It brings back "GOOD MEMORIES" - perhaps your an adult and even much older, and perhaps the last time you sat on a swing was during school days and now that you're no longer in school, you feel that you're too big for that. If you think like this then your missing out buddy. 

If you really want to bring back good memories, go sit on a swing and you'll immediately smile and even laugh out loud, while recalling how you and your class mates, close buddies would push the swing for you whewwww.. and your smile is wide and unending lolzzzz.

  There are so many things to recall while having your moment's. Some person's might find you funny or think you're crazy lolzz but they just don't know you're in your moment.

It makes you "APPRECIATE" yourself- Look into your mirror and see your strong self that has and will pull through in tough times makes you smile and tear up. Did you make any drawing and despite it's flaws you called it a "MASTERPIECE" , its a moment.

It builds "LOVE"- Making a homemade meal for your family and friends can build a strong Union and bond of love. Spending time with this one's is a string you wouldn't want to untie, it is indeed a "TREASURABLE" moment.

I will let you find out by yourselves the benefits of having your One time moment's.

Remember we have different types of Moment's in people's life which includes unhappy and sad Moment's.

Surprisingly, this kind of Moment's can have a big impact in our lives as well. I will mention a few and how it impacts our life.

 

Loosing a loved one- Loosing someone you love feels our heart with so much pain and our eyes with so much tears. We can't undo it but it impacts our life, making us understand and knowing the importance of loving and spending time with the people we care about, cherishing them while they are still with us.

Emotional heart-break-  In terms of relationships, unexpected emotional heart break can set in when we do not expect it and when we realize it. It can cause a lot of damage to ourselves and our life's drastically. On the other hand it can impact our lives, perhaps helping us to understand the importance of self love, it might as well give us time to consider qualities that we should look out for in a relationship if ever we didn't really look into that, it will as well help us to spend time more with those close ones who are there to comfort us , and as well as finding a better relationship.

 

There are some Moment's that do not impact our lives but helps us learn lessons. There are moment's that do not change our lives but allow us try out other options which will help to create other means of beautiful moment's.

ALL THIS ARE MOMENT'S ;

CRYING ALONE

TRYING OUT NEW THINGS

BUYING YOURSELF A DRESS

BUYING YOUR DREAM THINGS

GLOWING UP YOURSELF

BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP

LEARNING SOMETHING NEW

WALKING ON THE BEACH SIDE

DINNING WITH FAMILY

MOTIVATING YOURSELF

CRYING WITH A FAMILY OR FRIEND

APPRECIATING YOUR NEW RECIPE

MAKING A NEW HAIRSTYLE

GOING ON A VACATION

COOKING WITH A MATE

GISTING WITH YOUR MATE

PLANNING AN EVENT

GOING ON A DATE

LISTENING TO SONGS

FRIENDS GATHERING

WORKING WITH JOY

GETTING A BREAK FROM COLLEGE

GYMING

TALKING TO YOURSELF

PRAYING

PLAYING BY YOURSELF

EATING ALONE

EXPRESSING YOURSELF

SLEEPING ALONE

PULLING THROUGH HARD TIMES

BEING YOURSELF

LOVING SOMEONE

LOVING YOURSELF

HELPING PEOPLE

DANCING

LOOKING INTO A MATES EYE WHEN TOGETHER

TRYING NEW SKILLS

BEING ROMANTIC

GIVING GIFTS TO YOUR LOVED ONES

GETTING YOURSELF A GIFT

BEING ALIVE

FAMILY, RELATIONSHIP AND PARTNER FIGHT TIMES

GETTING/BEING MARRIED

HAVING A WEDDING PARTY

HAVING A BABY

GOING THROUGH TOUGH TIMES

EATING FROM THE SAME PLATE WITH SIBLINGS, FAMILY, MATE, FRIENDS.

SITTING ON THE FLOOR AND EATING

EATING MAMA'S MEALS

AND LOTS MORE.... 

These and more are Moment's that will always be "MEMORABLE" , something to never forget.

ONE TIME MOMENTS doesn't have to be one time, i call it one time because you might never have these moment's again due to our busy lives. The first time moments we have are very special and might be different from other moment's when trying  to RE-CREATE. BUT NONETHELESS they are MOMENT'S that we will forever treasure in our lives.

SELF-SERENITY

      The social media has been a wonderful source to humans, making life a little different and easy but very "INFLUENCIAL",

which at times can bring about Depression, Anxiety, Low self esteem or Low self worth, Degrading one's abilities and skills to most individuals.

  Life throws alot at us, but remember that not everyone's situation is the same, just as person's have different shoe sizes, we are all "DIFFERENT", "SPECIAL" and "IMPERFECT".

   The social media portrays beautiful talented people who are extremely skilled and more, but it can on the other hand cause certain individuals to wish their skills where as perfect as theirs, which leads to depression, low self worth and degrading their skills and abilities. To most extreme it can lead to OVERTHINKING, BRAIN DAMAGE, CHRONIC HEADACHE, SICKNESS and even "SUICIDAL THOUGHTS" , that's how serious it can get and anyone can fall a victim of this but

 HOW CAN YOU GAIN SELF SERENITY??

First, remember that not everything is perfect and even if it is, then it requires much needed effort and persistent.

     Most importantly, TAKING A BREAK from social media can do you much good that you can imagine. "ITS LIKE BEING FILLED WITH SO MUCH SERENITY AMIDST THE BUSTLING STREET".  Beautiful isn't it? Though it doesn't end all problems but at least it makes you "UNTROUBLED" , restful with calmness , peace, self love and self improvement at your own PACE.

  Remember, it's better to know little than not knowing at all. Appreciate the little skill you Learnt, Have and Know and if you need room for more improvement then go for it, but if you continue to spend more time watching the perfect side of skills, you'll be RESTLESS.

   People's life are different, and most times we wish to be like them, and it can cause depression and more. We might be led into the wrong direction if we chase blindly after the wind.

    APPRECIATE what you have, you never know if others are even wishing to have what you have. Taking a break from social media can leave room for more self love, thankfulness and improvement. 

  Social media isn't going to go away, and sometimes we will want to peek at new things, that's fine but to prevent depression and those other things, you can make few changes in your settings by choosing good sites that can help you improve and make you feel good and happy but at the same time also try to appreciate people's skills, that will help too.

  SELF SERENITY IS BEING AT PEACE WITH OURSELVES AND IT'S VERY IMPORTANT FOR OUR OVERALL HEALTH AND WELLBEING.

 

KITCHEN COMPROMISE

       Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you have to accept something slightly different from what you really want, mostly because of circumstances?
   It also happens in a kitchen and I call it "Kitchen Compromise" . And honestly am as well very experienced 😁.
   Even the littlest circumstances could make us compromise,
    Such as:
Using oil instead of butter,

Baking with a stove instead of oven,

No paprika, white pepper, basil, Oregano, but still cooking using the basic and regular seasonings,

Rubbing pan with butter and dusting with flour instead of baking paper,

Using a manual hand whisk instead of an electric whisker,

Using a table spoon instead of ladle,

Using pot to boil water instead of kettle,

Using a bottle as rolling pin,

Cooking short grain rice instead of long grain rice,

And the list goes on and on, it never ends. This are all kitchen flaws, but the flaws still works perfectly well, cause they'll alternatives.
   Remember there's no kitchen without even a little compromise , cause a kitchen is never perfect 🙂.